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Have you ever felt insecure in yourself, or thought negative of yourself?

Actually, never mind. That's probably a stupid question... All of us have been insecure at one point, considering that we are/have been teenagers.

Getting to the point, though, I'm quite the insecure teen. And I want to come up with some ways to change that.

1. Keep a positive outset. Don't tell yourself that you look horrible, because chances are, you're seeing yourself much more harshly than others are.

2. Despite what you're silly mind is telling you, remind yourself that you are/look beautiful.

3. If someone makes you feel stupid, keep in mind that they most likely are trying to bring you down because they feel bad about themselves. Basically, its a reflection of their poor personality.

4. Say what you want- this is so important to me, and many. We often worry too much when it comes to saying hi to a new face, displaying an opinion, etc. Say how you feel, say what you want. In the end, if someone doesn't like what you say, its no biggie. Eventually, they'd have to see that side of your personality even if you didn't say how you felt. As for saying hi to new people, if they snub you, who cares? You're the better person for trying. And hey, you may make some new friends by being so friendly!

5. Don't spend so much time trying to look perfect. If your hairs frizzy, don't try to straighten it perfectly for an hour. If someone can't stand that you don't look as perfect as a Victoria's Secret model, they deserve to be out of your life.

6. Stop being so modest. I'm not saying to be conceited. If someone compliments you, don't say "Oh, I'm not!" That makes you seem as if you have no confidence. Instead, say something like, "Aww, thank you!" Or "You are too!!". This shows you are secure in yourself, enough to the point where you accept that you are what they told you, and you don't need to flaunt it.

7. Fake it til you make it! Even if you look in the mirror and you still think you look terrible, or you dislike the one side to you, tell yourself that you love it. Walk around knowing that you're an awesome person, who is beautiful inside and out. Push away the demons in your head, and remind yourself of your amazing qualities.

I hope this post helps you guys! If you have any other ideas or techniques, post them below! Have a beautiful day 😊